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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

15.06.2025 03:02

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

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He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Why do so many guys love anime girls?

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

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So whats the point in blame.

I could never make a relationship work though!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

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And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

She loved him until the end.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Will my parents go to hell if I don't wear hijab, they tried to convince me and they provided it to me but I don't want to wear it?

I was very sick at this time too.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

We were not on the streets..

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He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

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As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

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One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

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I write beautiful poetry .

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

What happens to single guys when they get older?

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

And i lived it daily.

What did i know ?

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I think the readers, may guess!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Why is the French way to say please is "S'il te plaît" and not "Pour Favour" like Spanish and Portuguese "Per Favor" and Italian "Per Favore" in the Romance languages group?

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

I was seconnd youngest,

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I never cut or harmed myself..

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Who then, do I blame.?

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

Would this be the day?

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

We all went to grammer schools

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I waited trembling.

But ive been too sick for many years..

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I have no regrets .

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

But, we were locked up after school.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

I was 9 years of age.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

When she asked me how she looked .

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

She wouldn,t have been !

Where the ultimate outsiders.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

My mum and dad in the seventies!

He resisted the act ,that day.

Especially a lifetime of it.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

This is soul school!.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I said to her

My family never makes their pension either.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I don,t even have a pension.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Was to survive, this bastard.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

It was going to be , some day.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Why did i forgive my father ?

She found it foreign!.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

As i do to all so called friends.?

I was scared of men, in general

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

But it wasn’t much.

He knew the spot.

Comes on , in middle age.

My life is so biszare .

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

She married twice! .

So, i spoilt her more .

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

She was in good health!

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Ive learnt so much.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

I will be 64.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

(And it was in our own minds.)

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

All the time i was locked up.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Im still living with it.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

One cannot live in the past .

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Put me off passion for life!!

I couldn’t, believe it.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.